Episode 17: Mary Ryan – BPD, Bullies & Cold-Water Swimming

Mary Ryan: doctor, scholar, wife, mother, survivor, dog lover, cold water swimmer—talks personality disorder, good & bad priests, being a GP, power, violence, not being believed, and love.

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Doctor, scholar, mother, survivor—and dog lover.

After 35 years as a GP, Mary Ryan has seen it all, but her own journey has been just as intense as the lives of the patients she’s treated. Diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), she opens up about the stigma, misunderstandings, and how her own views on it have changed over time.

She talks about power, violence, and the times she wasn’t believed, reconciling with her Catholic faith after a traumatic childhood, and how a sudden stroke at 41 changed everything. From serious workplace bullying and hospital admissions to the one treatment that truly made a difference, Mary doesn’t hold back.

And in between all the chaos? There’s her love for dogs, baking, The Archers, Barry Humphries, and the strangely therapeutic power of cold-water swimming.

A fearless, funny, and brutally honest conversation about mental health, resilience, and finding strength through taking the plunge – literally.

Life Jackets

Lifejackets in this podcast refer to the personal tools and rituals that keep us afloat in the waves of life. Whether it’s a film, tv show, music, a favourite book, a crossword puzzle, or the steady presence of a dog, these are the things that keep us afloat. Everyone needs their own lifejackets—small but essential things that help us stay sane in an insane world.

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2 Comments

  1. Inigo 20 January 2025at14:41

    Fascinating talk .thanks Jeremy & Mary

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  2. Inigo 20 January 2025at14:43

    Fascinating and moving conversation .Thankyou Jeremy & Mary

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